{"id":2047,"date":"2013-06-24T11:52:52","date_gmt":"2013-06-24T18:52:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/?p=2047"},"modified":"2013-06-24T11:52:52","modified_gmt":"2013-06-24T18:52:52","slug":"ryan-alejandro-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/?p=2047","title":{"rendered":"Ryan + Alejandro | Married"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The longer I do this job, the more my perspective changes about what makes a really great wedding. It used to be that I obsessed over details\u2014venues, favors, tables, dresses, decoration. And while I still believe that a well-designed and -appointed wedding goes a long way to making your guests feel welcome and cared for, ultimately, it&#8217;s all window dressing. What matters, and what I pay special attention to when meeting couples for the first time, is personal connection, a couple&#8217;s love and their excitement to wed themselves to each other for keeps. True joy of that caliber can&#8217;t be faked, and no amount of styling can replace it if it&#8217;s missing. All of my couples this year overflow with this passion for one another. And <a title=\"Ryan + Alejandro | Engaged\" href=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/?p=1779\">Ryan + Alejandro<\/a>\u00a0(Remember their engagement session? I mean, could you forget it?) are a shining example of this. Their wedding was beautiful to look at, but their connection trumped it all. I&#8217;m going to stop yapping about it and start showing it to you. As always, the images speak for themselves. :)<\/p>\n<p>Oh, hi, cutie Ryan. :D<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"06_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/06_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"10_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/10_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"08_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/08_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"11_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/11_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/>Ryan is a flamenco dancer and has beautifully expressive hands. I maybe took too many photos of them throughout the day. :)<br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"09_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/09_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, my amazing second shooter, Nicole, was\u00a0over in the boys&#8217; suite. I always love seeing how many people it takes to dress a groom on his wedding day. :)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"01_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/01_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"03_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/03_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I feel like I say this a lot, but&#8230; Ring shots are one of my most favorite pictures to take. Especially when I find a flat, shiny surface. :D<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"36_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/36_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Off to the ceremony! Get ready for a series of amazingly sweet and genuine faces made by Ryan that perfectly illustrate my preamble. Exhibit A: Being given away by her dad.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"13_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/13_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"612\" height=\"918\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Exhibit B: \u00a0Sharing a quick glance with Alejandro during a reading.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"14_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/14_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Exhibit C: Listening to Alejandro&#8217;s vows. Just stop it, Ryan. Just stop being so adorable.<br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"15_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/15_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Try as they might, both Ryan + Alejandro struggled to get his ring on. Alejandro, just wait until you see your gallery to experience the full range of faces you made during this exercise. This was one of the tamer ones. :D<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"012_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/012_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"16_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/16_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>MARRIED! I&#8217;m totally in love with this image.<br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"17_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/17_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"19_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/19_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"612\" height=\"918\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"20_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/20_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This was a WAY fun bridal party. Great friends are worth their weight in gold.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"22_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/22_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Portrait time! :D<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"23_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/23_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Feel free to print this on a giant canvas and hang it right above your bed, my friends. :D<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"30_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/30_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>FAVORITE!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"31_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/31_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"26_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/26_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"24c_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/24c_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"687\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I have a love\/hate relationship with Oleander. Right now, I love it. :)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"29_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/29_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"27_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/27_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/>Then we went inside and explored the halls of The Arsenal. Literally. ;) Favorite.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"41_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/41_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And then the staircase:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"50_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/50_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"48_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/48_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s something wonderfully gentle about this image.<br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"47_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/47_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"612\" height=\"918\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Then we played in the freight elevator. And we enjoyed ourselves. :D<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"46_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/46_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/>Whether that dress was made for Ryan, or Ryan was made for that dress is a debate for the ages. Thanks to Nicole for the photo on the right. :)<br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"44c_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/44c_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"687\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I just don&#8217;t know. I could stare at this photo all day, every day, forever. Most favorite.<br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"42_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/42_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Reception time!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"33_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/33_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"39_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/39_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"38_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/38_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Alejandro took the job of finding the garter quite seriously.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"51_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/51_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"40_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/40_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/>A perfect end to the evening. :)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"p3-insert-all size-full aligncenter\" title=\"37_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/mefphoto.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/37_RyanAlejandro_Arsenal_Wedding.jpg\" width=\"918\" height=\"612\" \/>Ryan + Alejandro, thank you for loving each other so tenderly and truly, and for asking me to photograph it for you. I am proud and honored to share these images with you and I hope you love them as much as I do. Your wedding was perfect and your relationship is beautiful. I cannot wait to see what the future brings you both\u2014you deserve the world. :) xo, M<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Venue | <a title=\"The Arsenal, Benicia\" href=\"http:\/\/www.weddingsbenicia.com\" target=\"_blank\">The Arsenal<\/a><br \/>\nPlanner | Jill, Eventful Days<br \/>\nCatering | Randy, <a title=\"907 Grill\" href=\"http:\/\/www.907grill.com\" target=\"_blank\">907 Grill<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; The longer I do this job, the more my perspective changes about what makes a really great wedding. It used to be that I obsessed over details\u2014venues, favors, tables, dresses, decoration. 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