MEF Photography Blog! bio picture
  • Hello, friend! :D

    Welcome, welcome! That's me over there. < -- I'm Molly, a San Francisco Bay Area-based photographer. I adore weddings, families and portraits, but my cat, food and house get a lot of my attention, too! I'm married to my very best friend, and we sing to each other a lot. I'm a mid-century modern home dweller. I'm always working, working, working to be better at life (a never-ending battle!). I get a kick out of simplicity, tea, bright colors, ice cream, cooking, sarcasm and books -- among other things. I love me some good, authentic, giggly love. And I love making people feel lovely in the midst of their good, authentic, giggly love. And if that's your thing, too, I'd love nothing more than to give you some good, authentic, giggly love photos. :)

                   

Liz + Pete | Engaged

 

Whenever a couple comes to me from Laurel of Esla Events, I know they’re going to be outstanding and I cross every available appendage and limb and hope they’ll book me. Ladies and germs, meet the latest duo to find me via Laurel: Liz + Pete!

The first time we met, we talked until the hipster barista at the Oakland coffee shop we were in kicked us out on the street. And then? No joke, we went to the terrifying Church’s Chicken across the street where we managed to talk for another hour (and I managed to scar myself when making the mistake of using their bathroom). They knew they wanted to hire me, and I knew I was one lucky lady. Because anyone who will laugh with you into the night in a fast food restaurant where the workers are protected by bullet proof glass has got to be something special. Plus, they’re getting married at the Marin Headlands Center for the Arts—a venue I’ve wanted to photograph for. freaking. ever. Can you tell I’m smitten with them? :) PHOTO TIME!

When we were talking about where to take their engagement photos, Liz + Pete told me that they love Mt. Tam and the ocean, so there was no question about where to go. And the weather could not have been more perfect. A miraculously fog-free afternoon. Can you see San Francisco in the distance? :)

I love the light in this image:

So dang cute!

The photo on the right? I’m pretty sure I was singing them a song I made up (it was either I’m the Squeakiest Wheel or Sherman’s Watching Us) to get them to laugh. :)

FAVORITE. Ugh. How flipping gorgeous is Liz? (The answer is “WAY.” She’s WAY gorgeous.)

We were walking back to the car when I saw the light coming through this tree and I’m pretty sure I snorted in excitement. Worth it, right?

LOOK AT THE MOON! This right here would make an amazing giant canvas, in case you were wondering. :D

Can all of them be my favorites? Because if so… (Love their outfits, too.)

Weird compliment time: Doesn’t Pete have awesome hugging arms? Totally. :D

When I asked them what they envisioned getting out of their engagement session, Liz said they just wanted to show how much they love each other and nature and the ocean. With that in mind, I think this was a perfect end to our day. :)

Liz + Pete, I am SO excited for your wedding. The fact that you didn’t skip a beat when I started singing to you, and in return you taught me a song that’s become part of my daily repertoire (“I’m a ball full of complaints!”) made my little ol’ heart burst with joy. You two are a ball full of delightfulness and I had an awesome time photographing and laughing with you. I hope you love these images! I am counting down the days to your wedding—I’ll try to have some more songs under my belt by then! xo, M

Carrin + Logan | Engaged

I was really looking forward to Carrin + Logan’s engagement session, because up until that day I had only ever talked to Carrin briefly on the phone. Don’t get me wrong, that phone call was delightful, but I’m an in-person kind of gal (my weirdo personality is just… weird… via other channels of communication). (Also? This is mostly unrelated but I’m thinking about it so I’m just going to say it: I hate voicemail.)

ANYWAY! Let’s just say I was not in the least disappointed upon meeting them for the first time at Lake Chabot near Castro Valley. They’re both adorable (I think Carrin looks like a young Christy Turlington, though I still can’t place what celebrity Logan resembles—any ideas?). They’re totally sweet and in love. And they’re also completely practical go-getters (C’s a veterinarian while L’s a rancher who taught me a whole lot about plants during our session). Basically, they combine a number of my favorite traits into one couple and they didn’t bat an eye when I asked them to crawl under a dark deck or cuddle up on a concrete boat ramp. Bingo, pals.

As usual, however, I shall cut short my wandering preamble to bring you the real stars of the show. Starting off with a favorite (and you see now why I couldn’t pass up the aforementioned boat ramp):

Walking up the hill to this spot reminded me of a couple of things: 1) I love California and her golden hills and, 2) I really, really need to exercise more. :)

Most favorite of the whooooole day, right here:

Pssst. This would make an awesome canvas. :D

Logan is basically 6’1,000,000″ tall, so I took a lot of advantage of natural slopes that day. :)

The one on the riiiiiiight! :D

Pssssst, again. Hang a gigantic canvas of this over your couch. :)

I ran a 10K around Lake Chabot earlier this year. I remember it being beautiful, but I was mostly focusing on not keeling over, so it was a nice to return and view it from a slower pace. The foreground scenery wasn’t so bad, either. :)
What you can’t see in the image on the right is the giant goose puttering around right behind them. So bossy. :D

Ducks!

Yeah, another favorite.

Last shot of the day. This is going to be on the cover of their guest book. :)
Thank you, Carrin + Logan, for being such good sports and so danged easy going. I am looking forward to your beautiful wedding and to seeing all of your and momma Christina’s hard work! Please pet all of your puppies hello for me and Sherman says “meow!” (Well, truthfully he’s asleep and snoring right now, but I’m sure if he were awake that’s what he’d say.) :D I hope you love these photos, friends!

Chiara + Dan | Married at Quarry Hill Inn

Chiara + Dan. Chiiiiiara + Dan. Chiaraaaaa + Daaaaan. Guys, seriously. Chiara + Dan.

I have looked forward to this wedding since the day I met these two for their engagement session last year (to refresh your memory: GIANT RABBITS). Because these two are seriously something special. Fun fact: They met while sharing a coed hostel room in Barcelona (Chiara was studying abroad in college; Dan was being a drunken British tourist walking headfirst into bunk beds). If there exists a better argument for life not being entirely random, I don’t honestly know one. Luck or fate or God or the universe (take your pick) brought together two extraordinarily charming, emotive, intelligent and darned funny people. And if I could shrink them down and carry them around in my pocket all day every day I would. And I don’t care if that’s a really weird compliment. It’s just how I feel.

But enough about me! This pair has been waiting so patiently to see their wedding photos (and this post is a doozy!). Let’s hop to it, shall we?

Chiara wrapped a piece of her mom’s wedding dress around her bouquet. Her momma also made her bracelet. :)

Hello, beautiful. :)

I love this photo. Love it.

What do you do when you’re in a wedding dress and it’s hot as hades? Stand in the cake refrigerator, of course!

Chiara’s mom made all of the flower girl dresses. By the way, these little ladies HAD BRITISH ACCENTS. So yeah. Heart explosion.

That’s an itty bitty braid of porcupine quills in her hair. A native american tradition.

Dear Daniel was already dressed up by the time we got to him. But we did catch him reading the sweet letters that he and Chiara exchanged. (She called him her groomsicle.) ;)

HANDSOME! See Dan? You’re so much more than an accent. ;)

Chiara’s godmother officiated their ceremony. (P.S. That’s Dan’s mom in the background.)

Do we need to stop to talk about how gorgeous Chiara is? Because we can, but it will take a really long time.

So I was just going to post the following adorable photo of Chiara and her ladies…

But this one is really much more representative of their personalities. :)

Same thing goes for the gents’ (+1 lady!) side:

How awesome is that fascinator, by the way?

And it’s wedding time!

Waiting to walk down the aisle. Renato was alllll jokes. Although, I don’t know if there’s ever a time when Renato isn’t all jokes. :)

Seeing his bride for the first time.

So, if you do this job long enough you’ll see a lot of the same ceremony elements repeated, but this was a new one on me and has to be the best I’ve ever encountered. Chiara + Dan’s mothers both brought water from their home towns (Dan’s came all the way from England!), which they poured together in that there jug (which I’m sure has an official name that I’m forgetting), then they each drank from it. How lovely is that symbolism?

Dan’s reaction to Chiara’s vows. :)

Married!

I said this when I posted this photo on Facebook, but I’ll say it again: I don’t think Chiara + Dan would change anything about their wedding day… except for the choice to have their guests sprinkle (barrage / bombard / attack) them with lavender during their recessional. While it made for pretty great photos and they powered through it like champs, it looked… rough. And it was stuck everywhere—in their hair, down their shirts, in their mouths. But hey, they smelled great. :)

Lavender fiasco, exhibit B:

I fell in love with their mothers. I mean, how could you not?

Heeeeeey, gaaaaaang!

High five, friends—it’s reception time!

Renato’s speech was… fun. And not just because he stopped in the middle of it to say that I’m the best photographer of all time. ;)

Chiara + Dan’s speeches were touching.

Meanwhile, Dan’s brother’s speech was far and away the most inappropriate I’ve ever heard. Ever. Naked photos of Dan were circulated. Dozens of keys to Dan’s apartment were collected from previous “paramours.” Disgusting facts were shared. I laughed myself into tears. And I kid you not, I have no less than a dozen photos in a row of guests with their hands on their foreheads making this exact same face. Which I’m quite certain is exactly what Dan’s brother was aiming for. So… success!

Then we snuck out for portrait time!

I’m not a big “normal portrait” gal (everyone looking at the camera and smiling), but that one on the right? Come on.

Favorite!

Credit for this beauty goes to my main second shooter squeeze, Nicole!

Favorite. I love this.

Favorite. I hate to toot my own horn (lie), but this is perfect and provided a nice quad workout. :D

And some first dance action. :)

I don’t normally post bouquet toss photos, but I kind of nailed this one, so…

Chiara surprised Dan with a super hero groom’s cake that had Spiderman (catching a burgler in his web), Superman and Batman on it. You only need to know this because otherwise the next photo will make no sense.

See? :D

Boom is right, my friends. What a joyous wedding yours was. Lavender shower aside, it was perfect in every single way, not least because of the precious community of (sometimes inappropriate) friends and family you’ve gathered around yourselves. You are splendid human beings whom I am honored to have met. And I’m just going to get it off my chest and say to you now that I hate that you live in New York, because it makes it very difficult for me to show up at your doorstep for laughter and smart conversation and, I’m assuming, a pretty good cup of tea. Thank you, really, truly and with all honesty, for choosing me to photograph your wedding. You are lucky to have found each other, and I am even luckier to have been found by you. I hope you love your photos. Boom. :D

 

Venue | Quarry Hill Botanical Gardens
Planner | Kelly, Kelly & Company Events
Catering | Park Avenue Catering
Florals | Jamie, Studio 13 Designs
Hair + Makeup | Catalina’s Skin & Body
Videographer | Sarah, Twenty Twenty Studios
Cake | Harvest Moon Café
DJ | Kaveh, Sound In Motion

Oh, and I can’t post this wedding without sharing the following gem of myself. Listen, when you’re in the middle of portraits and your bride just can’t stand her veil and porcupine braid anymore and you want to take some photos of your groom without his top hat on and you don’t have anywhere convenient to put them… friends, you put them on me. Blammo. :D

Shannon + Scott | Engaged in Pasadena

I have known Miss Shannon (or, as I lovingly call her, ShannyPants) for over a decade now. We were roommates when we did a study abroad program in London between our freshmen and sophomore years of college. And we got along so well and had so much fun together that neither of us can even remember the name of our third roommate. Diana, maybe? Now Shannon is a fancy pants doctor, and a woman with the sort of glowing, infectious, draw-you-in-with-a-smile personality that could make me gush over her for hours and hours. Seriously, knowing this lady is a privilege and a pleasure; she’s the type of person I could only wish to become. And though I don’t know Scott as well, I like him just as much. Really, I’m just happy they’re FINALLY getting married, because guys, this has been a long time coming. :)

It’s harder for me to write about people I care for, because all I want to do is pen paragraph after laudatory paragraph that would make me happy, make them embarrassed and put you to sleep. So instead, you’ll just take my word for how great they are and we’ll get on with the photos! :D

Scott is an avid golfer, and apparently over the last few years he’s begun to convert Shannon to the ways of the sport. So naturally we went to the mini golf course around the corner from their house. I honestly didn’t realize until afterwards that it was totally falling apart. But I think that adds to the charm. :)

Next, we went back to their UNBELIEVABLY ADORABLE house to take pictures with their UNBELIEVABLY ADORABLE eight-year-old dog, Bella. She was a sausage and I wanted to eat her precious face. I mean, look. Just look. Also, we bribed her with cheese. :D

Before I showed Shannon this photo, I said, “I don’t know how you feel about pictures of yourself when you’re really smiling, but…” To which she replied, “Molly, if I didn’t like photos of myself when I’m really smiling, I would never like any photos of myself.” And in the case of “Why I Love Shannon” we’ll call that Exhibit A. The prosecution rests. Favorite. :D

The light in their front yard was basically perfect. And obviously so were they. Duh.

Then we moseyed on over to the CalTech campus, which is beautiful and filled with great landscaping and art deco buildings. So of course, I found a loading dock. :)

I probably could have offered them money not to smile and it wouldn’t have worked. That’s a) how much they like each other and b) how funny I am. Favorite.

Just for future reference, this would make a great canvas. :)

Hi. Could you just stop being so adorable?

I cloned a lot of trash out the the background of this photo. Pick up after yourselves, CalTech nerds. ;)

I feel like ivy walls are becoming my gimmick. But I can’t help it and I just don’t care. Favorite. :D

I believe what I asked for in this photo was straight faces, no smiling. :D And not to be putting ideas in your head, but this one would also make a good canvas. Favorite.

She’s kind of just the prettiest. And the smartest. And the nicest. And what’s totally ridiculous is that he’s equally great. :D

Shannon’s momma commented on this photo on Facebook something that so perfectly encompasses the end goal of all of my sessions. So I’m just going to share her words with you: “This picture shows the essence of how comfortable you are in your relationship and how much in love!!! Brava!” Bingo, pals. Bingo. Favorite from this whole year right here.

ShannyPants. Scooter. If it weren’t totally obvious, I love you both. Like, big time. As a pair, you are a force to be reckoned with. My single complaint about you is that you live too far away, but my life might be too perfect if you were closer, so I suppose it’s alright. Thank you, really, truly, honestly, and from the bottom of my heart for asking me to take your photos—it was an honor. Thank you for giving me another excuse to visit Pasadena. Thank you for giving me something to look forward to next September. I hope you love these images, and I hope you see exactly what your momma saw, because goodness knows I do. :) xo, M

 

Erin + Brian | Married at The Garden Court Hotel

I may try to hide it sometimes, but the truth is, I’m a big softie. Give me happiness, give me love, give me kindness and sunshine and I am satisfied. Erin + Brian are all of these things, and their wedding was a perfect celebration of that fact. You’ll recall their engagement session made me cry. Needless to say, I was a blubbering fool for their ceremony. Seriously. Big softie. :)

This was my first time at The Garden Court Hotel in Palo Alto—and what a lovely venue it was! Just wait until you see the carpet in the rooms. :D

Laurel from Esla Events put together this beautiful wedding. She is far and away the best wedding planner I have ever come across (and I can say this from personal experience—she planned my own wedding!). I love her attention to detail and her focus on what’s most important to her clients. I could rave about her alllll day. :)

By the time I got to Erin, she was way ahead of schedule with her hair and makeup  (and a surprise trip home and back!) completed. She was radiant with excitement. :)

Meanwhile, over in the men’s suite… Thanks to the best second shooter on earth, Nicole, for these! By the way, Brian dropped something like 35 pounds since I saw them for their engagement session. He deserves huge high fives for his effort—so proud of him!

Remember the carpet? :D

Pssst. That’s Brian’s son on the left. :)

Erin’s final touch was a head wreath made by my most favorite florist of all time (who also did my own wedding!), Leigh of Leigh Okies Designs. It was perfection, and I love the joy on Erin’s face as she put it on. Favorite! :)

I admit it. I am 100% jealous of Erin’s haircut. I so wish I could pull that off! And isn’t her grecian-inspired dress lovely?

Brian waits patiently for his first sight. :D

Love. Favorite.

I’m pretty sure the first thing I look for at any venue is a shiny surface. Found it in the lobby! :D

And here we go!

Let’s talk about how great this ribbon backdrop Laurel created is. I’ll go first: So good. :D

Erin waiting with her dad before they walked down the aisle. Favorite.

Their ceremony was joyous and heartfelt. There was hardly a dry eye in the house. :)

But there was also a lot of laughter, which is my favorite! Oh how I adore genuine smiles. :D

And then I turned around and saw this. That’s Erin’s totally and completely adorable mom, by the way! :D :D :D

Love this etherial shot Nicole grabbed during a reading.

Favorite, favorite, FAVORITE. So perfect.

MARRIED! :D

The reception room at The Garden Court Hotel is so light and bright, and Laurel’s sweet table designs with Leigh’s mediterranean florals were just lovely.

Guys, love is great. So very great. Favorite by Nicole.

That’s their one-year-old granddaughter, Skylar! She was such a trooper and stayed up all day.

Then we snuck outside for some portraits. Do you spy the tiny olives in the bouquet? :D

Love the dress blowing in the wind!

Seriously? They are both SO CUTE.

Ending it with my most favorite image of the day. :D

Erin + Brian, the universe did something so wonderfully right in putting you two together. Thank you for showing me the importance and beauty of respect, love and kindness. I am so very grateful to have witnessed your marriage, and no two people deserve such happiness as you do. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for asking me to photograph your wedding. I cherish the time I spent with you and I hope you love these photos. Here’s to many more years of happiness. :D xo, M